Wednesday, 13 July 2011

Its been a tough few weeks............

Ive had a bit of a bad time recently, my partner went in for a standard op and wound up in intensive care.
I know alot of people suffer from illness or withstand love ones suffering, but I never thought it would happen here, now to us.  I have been so afraid that he would die that it was unbearable. If it wasnt for the support from my family, I dont know what I would have done. I want to thank everyone that has shown kindness and love.  A special big thankyou to my son, who was so loving and caring and there for us. Its funny, but I think somtimes God sends an Angel to earth in a human body and these people shine. They dont have to be goody two shoes, they can be rebels and little gits, but there is that loyalty and love and the ability to make you laugh in the most impossible situations. They are the ones that you are always pleased to see.  These people always seem to get the rough end of the stick, but they stand it and think of others. I am blessed with two sons who have so much compassion for others that they both shine out amongst men. Here is an example of that love working its way around. We had a wheelchair, but when we recently went to use it, it was broken. At the moment my son was fixing it, a friend of his offered to get a good one. It turns out that this guy works in the care profession and normally we would be charged for it, also his wife is a nurse, by the way, I dont know him. To cut a long story short, he got the wheelchair and his wife offered free nursing care for my partner. He popped his head into our shop and left his phone number, so I asked him why he was doing this, he said it was because my son was his friend......... Maybe you dont think its much, but it touched my heart to think my son had left an impression on him like that.  My brother is another one, he is so generous and giving always.
He isnt a fool but he genuinly cares about others.  Its a great thing to have this around you. My partner cares about me so much and I hope I show how much I care about him. He is an intelligent, handsome, funny, lovely man, I hope he gets his strenght back soon and is his old self again.  I just wanted to put my thoughts down in writing, and I have. x  

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